Ryan Bailey

Why Going All In Meant Saying No to Something Good

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-09 /

Since deciding to go all in on helping Christians get God’s love from head to heart, I’ve said no to more good things in the eight weeks since my surgery than I said no to in the two years before it. Not bad things, and not close calls — genuinely good requests, from people I…

Receiving a Compliment Without Flinching

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-08 /

God’s love settled your worth before anyone applauded, which means you can receive praise as a gift instead of a threat. You may know the reflex: someone compliments your talk, your leadership, or your team’s result, and you wave it off before they finish. Have you ever walked away from a kind word feeling oddly…

Lay It Out in the Morning and Watch for the Answer

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-07 /

Morning prayer is not a request dropped into silence; it is a request laid out before a Father who is already listening. Have you ever caught yourself running the day’s list through your head on the drive in and calling it prayer? The list is accurate and the words are sincere, yet it can sound…

The Gift in the Way Your Spouse Is Wired

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-06 /

The way your spouse is wired differently from you is not a problem to manage; it is a gift God placed on purpose. You may know the differences well, how your spouse decides, recovers from a hard day, or spends a free Saturday, and have settled into working around them. Have you ever considered that…

The Joy of Speaking Well of Others

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-05 /

Speaking well of someone is one of the few things that blesses you, them, and everyone listening at the same time. You may have sat in a meeting where a colleague did something excellent, you knew it, and the conversation moved on before anyone said so out loud. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? â€”…

Searched, Known, and Still Loved

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-04 /

God knows you completely, and His love has never once been surprised by what He found. As you sit down in worship this morning, you may be carrying thoughts you have never said aloud to anyone. Hold that for a moment, because today is about who God is and the fact that He knows all…

The Family Ritual That’s Become A Chore Instead Of A Gift

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-03 /

The same grace before dinner, the same Bible reading plan, going to the same Church, can get repeated so many times it started to feel like one more box to check. Moses had a different word for that kind of repetition. He called it sharpening. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? â€” a 30-second practice…

The Advice I Give That I Almost Didn’t Take Myself

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-02 /

I caught myself doing the exact thing I coach clients out of doing, in real time, while I was talking. A few weeks ago I sat down with my team to explain the shift to going all in: the weekly coaching, the day blocked for my Ph.D. work, what would change and what wouldn’t. I’d…

The Verse You Memorized In Case You’d Need It — You Do, Today

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-10-01 /

Maybe you memorized a verse months ago, but haven’t thought about it since. However, the Bible is described as living and active; the verses you memorized don’t need to wait for a special occasion. Pull out what you know and use it – today. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? â€” a 30-second practice that…

Building Up Your Spouse with Gratitude

By Ryan Bailey / 2026-09-30 /

It’s easy to let the thing your spouse does every single day — the lunch packed, the call made, the lawn mowed — stopped registering as effort and allow it to become an everyday, unnoticed fact of life. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? â€” a 30-second practice that grows into a day woven with…