Ryan Bailey

Helping Your Child With High-Functioning ADHD

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-09-17 /

Parenting a high-functioning child with ADHD presents unique challenges and opportunities. While these children often excel academically and socially, they will still greatly benefit from tailored support to manage their symptoms and thrive.  While high-functioning, your child may still benefit from professional interventions from a therapist who specializes in working with children.  Cognitive-behavioral therapy can…

My Child is Being Rebellious – What Do I Do?

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-09-16 /

As Christians, we understand that rebellion against authority is not merely a behavioral issue, but a spiritual one rooted in our fallen nature (James 4:1-3). When we address a rebellious child, we are not simply dealing with a behavioral issue, but rather we are dealing directly with their sinful heart. As we discipline rebellion, our…

Parenting Your Strong Willed Child

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-09-16 /

Parenting a strong-willed child is often challenging and discouraging, and it can be hard to keep the long view in mind in the midst of temper tantrums and disobedience.  However, your strong willed child is not a mistake, and God can use them mightily for his purposes.  Parenting a strong willed child is not finding…

Helping Your Child Increase Their Self Control

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-09-16 /

Teaching our children impulse control is one of the ways we can help them grow in Christlikeness.  Proverbs 25:28 states, “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.”  By teaching your kids how to control themselves, you are helping them learn how to resist the temptation to sin, persevere…

Love, Truth, And Shifting Your Mindset In Conflict

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-06-10 /

As followers of Christ, we are called to show love for others and the truth of Scripture in every aspect of our lives. Love and truth should be especially present in our marriages, where they serve as the bedrock of our relationship with our spouse. However, balancing love and truth can sometimes be challenging, particularly…

I’m A Christian. Do My Strengths Matter? Part 2

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-06-10 /

In our first post in this series, we looked at how to identify your strengths.  But how can Christians talk about their strengths without coming across as boastful? Christians often grapple with the idea of talking about their strengths. They are concerned about coming across as boastful or prideful, which goes against the humility we…

I’m A Christian. Do My Strengths Matter? Part 1

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-06-10 /

What is the purpose of understanding our strengths as Christians?  This two-part series will examine why Christians need to understand our strengths and how Christians can talk about them without appearing boastful. Understanding our strengths teaches us to lean into and utilize our God-given talents and abilities to glorify God through our work.  Recognizing our…

Creating A Safe Zone With Your Spouse

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-05-30 /

What do you do if you and your spouse find yourselves embroiled in conflict that never seems to go anywhere?  In order to see progress and find resolution, it can be helpful to use a tool that we call the “Safe Zone Exercise”. A Safe Zone is where you and your spouse create a set…

Making Christ Our 1st Principle, Part 3

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-01-17 /

In our last post, we looked at a powerful tool for staying connected to Christ. But before we go into other options for how to stay connected to Christ throughout an entire day, you might be thinking, “Ryan, you have no idea how my sinful nature works.  I can have all the right intentions to…

Making Christ Our 1st Principle, Part 1

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-01-17 /

Notice that when we talk about the gospel, it is the Gospel of Jesus Christ. It is not the Gospel of __________ (insert your name).  The Gospel is primarily about Him. The J.B. Phillips’ translation of Colossians 1:15-20  makes this clear.  It reads,  “Now Christ is the visible expression of the invisible God.  He existed…