Saturday
The same grace before dinner, the same Bible reading plan, going to the same Church, can get repeated so many times it started to feel like one more box to check. Moses had a different word for that kind of repetition. He called it sharpening. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? — a 30-second practice…
Peter thought seven times was a generous amount of times to forgive someone. Jesus didn’t correct the math — he obliterated the whole idea that forgiveness comes with a limit. Most families are running on some quiet version of Peter’s math when we need to reorient ourselves towards God’s view of forgiveness. C.H.E.W. with Me…
You’re standing in the garage at 8am on a Saturday, staring down a leaf blower, a stack of mulch bags, and a to-do list longer than your arm. Despite the seemingly endless list of chores, it’s worth asking what an empty garage would actually mean. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? — a 30-second practice…
The Saturday schedule is already full before anyone extra gets added to it — errands penciled in, one project you promised yourself you’d finally finish, maybe a game to get to by eleven. Then someone shows up anyway — a neighbor, a coworker without family nearby, one of your kid’s friends who just wandered in…
Your teenager has never once watched you decide to give something away. Not because you’re stingy — you give plenty, quietly, often automatically, a check written or a transfer made somewhere they’ll never see it happen. You’ve just never done it where they could actually watch, and a money lesson taught entirely in secret doesn’t…
You’d apologize to your spouse within the hour if you snapped at them unfairly — it’s practically automatic at this point, a rhythm most healthy marriages build without even discussing it. Snap at your kid the same way, over the same kind of unfair moment, and most of us just move on. No repair, no…
You ask your child “How was your day?” at dinner, and you get “fine” — every night this week, the same word, delivered the same flat way. While you’re frustrated with the answer, what you might not notice is that the question itself trained that answer. A question this vague doesn’t tend to get anything…
John set his phone face-up on the counter “just in case” — a client had a launch going live over the weekend, and he told himself he was being responsible, not distracted. His daughter was telling him about her science project, the one with the baking-soda volcano she’d rebuilt twice after it collapsed. Somewhere around…
Most nights, the last words Aaron’s kids hear from him are some version of a correction — brush your teeth, turn off the light, stop stalling, get some sleep. None of it is wrong to say; a household needs those sentences to function. It’s just the only kind of sentence they hear, night after night,…