Uncategorized
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Why It’s Hard to Go Alone You ever try to change your life in isolation? Growing up, I learned fast—real growth almost always happens with other people watching, encouraging, or challenging you. From the park in Washington Heights to boardrooms in Atlanta, culture eats…
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Uptown to Everyday—When the Drivers Flare Up Even now, whether it’s Atlanta business or family headlights and sirens in Washington Heights, my core longings don’t take a day off. There are moments I can name the ache—craving recognition, stung by exclusion, restless for “something…
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Uptown Needs, Uptown Answers From a young age in Washington Heights, I heard a hundred voices telling me how to fill the emptiness—hustle harder, fit in, become “somebody,” never show weakness. I tried most of the world’s answers. Eventually, even doing everything right didn’t…
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Uptown Blues: When Longing Turns Sideways In the Heights, even the loudest laughter could hide a deep ache. Looking back, I see it in all of us—turning our core longings into silent agreements or cover-up moves when things got rough. For me, that meant…
How Do I Discern the SALVES Driver in Others? Seeing and Serving at the Level of What Really Matters
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Family, Teams, and Tension in Upper Manhattan Growing up in Washington Heights, family gatherings could feel like jazz—everybody playing their part, sometimes in harmony, sometimes in chaos. I wished early on that I could “read the room”—to know what people really needed, not just…
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Washington Heights, Wounds, and What Drives Us In Washington Heights, I learned quickly that everyone’s got a “why”—a core longing that shapes what feels like winning or losing. Some chased respect on the block, some clung tight to family, others just wanted to belong.…
THE DAILY CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Real Life: Coffee, Core Longings, and Core Stories Growing up in Washington Heights, it was normal to see family members fighting hard to be “somebody”—whether by making a name in the neighborhood, keeping us safe in little ways, or making sure we were never…
The Daily CHEW™Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Last week, a belt got looser and—surprisingly—that’s when the old cravings crept in. Here’s the honest side of my journey: after over three months of using the C.H.E.W. framework day and night (and seeing changes, not only in me but also in the high-performing men…
The Daily CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. Twenty-three years ago this morning, I watched from my apartment window on 169th Street in Washington Heights as an F-15 screamed overhead toward the Twin Towers, responding to the unthinkable. In those moments of terror and uncertainty, something shifted in me, away from living…
The Daily CHEW™ Chew on God’s Love. Live Transformed. Multiply Hope. There I was, mid-prayer, mentally drafting my response to a client email. I know God’s love is sufficient, I believe Jesus is enough, yet somehow my morning time with the Father had become another item to optimize while my mind raced through today’s demands.…