Resource Blog: A Long List of CHEW Questions for Mental Health Challenges


How to Use This List

  • Pick a CHEW question that fits your current feeling, struggle, or mental health journey.
  • Write it down and answer it as honestly and deeply as you can.
  • When you run out of answers, pick another question—or invite a friend, mentor, or group to chew with you.
  • Use these questions especially when you feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or alone in your mental health struggles.

CHEW Question Formula Reminder

If I really believed God’s love is [characteristic], how would that change [my thoughts, feelings, actions, or identity] right now?


CHEW Questions for Mental Health Challenges—Focused on God’s Love

God’s Love Is Compassionate and Understanding

  • If I really believed God’s love understands my pain, how would that change my shame about struggling?
  • If I really believed God’s love is gentle with my mind and heart, how would that change my self-criticism?
  • If I really believed God’s love is compassionate toward my suffering, how would that change my prayers for help?
  • If I really believed God’s love welcomes my honest emotions, how would that change my willingness to talk to Him?
  • If I really believed God’s love is not disappointed by my struggle, how would that change my self-talk?

God’s Love Is Present and Never-Leaving

  • If I really believed God’s love never leaves me, how would that change my sense of isolation?
  • If I really believed God’s love is with me in the darkness, how would that change my fear of being alone in my struggle?
  • If I really believed God’s love is closer than my breath, how would that change my experience of anxiety or depression?
  • If I really believed God’s love is present in every moment, how would that change my hope for each day?
  • If I really believed God’s love is my constant companion, how would that change my outlook on hard seasons?

God’s Love Is Patient and Gentle

  • If I really believed God’s love is patient with my journey, how would that change my discouragement about slow progress?
  • If I really believed God’s love is gentle with my weaknesses, how would that change my willingness to keep trying?
  • If I really believed God’s love is never frustrated by my setbacks, how would that change my shame after a hard day?
  • If I really believed God’s love is always kind, how would that change my attitude toward myself?
  • If I really believed God’s love celebrates every small step, how would that change my view of progress?

God’s Love Is Healing and Restorative

  • If I really believed God’s love can heal my wounds, how would that change my hope for recovery?
  • If I really believed God’s love restores what’s broken, how would that change my outlook on the future?
  • If I really believed God’s love is the source of true peace, how would that change my search for relief?
  • If I really believed God’s love brings beauty from ashes, how would that change my prayers for transformation?
  • If I really believed God’s love is always working for my good, how would that change my trust in the process?

God’s Love Is Providing and Caring

  • If I really believed God’s love provides for my needs, how would that change my anxiety about getting help?
  • If I really believed God’s love cares about my whole being—body, mind, and spirit—how would that change my willingness to seek support?
  • If I really believed God’s love is not limited by my diagnosis, how would that change my hope for change?
  • If I really believed God’s love brings the right people into my life, how would that change my openness to counseling or community?
  • If I really believed God’s love is attentive to my needs, how would that change my prayers for daily strength?

God’s Love Is Faithful and Unchanging

  • If I really believed God’s love is faithful even when I feel faithless, how would that change my security?
  • If I really believed God’s love never changes, how would that change my hope in the midst of mood swings or setbacks?
  • If I really believed God’s love is steadfast, how would that change my confidence to keep going?
  • If I really believed God’s love holds me on my worst days, how would that change my willingness to keep trusting?
  • If I really believed God’s love is always for me, how would that change my identity in the struggle?

When You Run Out of Answers

  • Pick another CHEW question from this list.
  • Try a different characteristic of God’s love or a new angle on your struggle.
  • Invite a friend, mentor, or group to chew with you, or pray for God to show you something new.
  • Keep chewing—God’s love is deeper and more powerful than any mental health challenge!

Blessing

May God’s compassionate, present, and healing love meet you as you chew on these questions—one honest step at a time. You are never alone, and your struggle does not define you.


Transparency Note: This blog is crafted in collaboration with advanced AI tools and thoughtfully finalized by the 1st Principle Group staff to ensure biblical faithfulness and practical relevance for our readers. All stories are fictional and not a representation of any one client.


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Ryan Bailey

Ryan C. Bailey helps Christian professionals live from the reality of God’s love in the middle of real leadership, work, and family pressures. For over 30 years, he has walked with leaders, families, and teams through key decisions and seasons of change, bringing together Gospel‑centered counseling, coaching, and consulting with practical tools like CHEW through Ryan C Bailey & Associates.