Why This Matters for You (and Those Around You)

Have you ever paused to reflect on God’s love—only to find your mind blank and your heart unmoved? Maybe you’re chasing a thousand thoughts, numb from a hard week, or just feeling distant. You’re not alone. Many people wonder if there’s value in meditating on God’s love when nothing seems to “happen” inside. But what if these dry moments are some of the most important times to CHEW?

The Core Practice: A Shared Invitation

Here’s the heart of it:
CHEWing on God’s love isn’t about chasing feelings or waiting for a dramatic experience. The most powerful change often begins quietly, as you bring your real self—yes, even your lack of emotion—to God and rehearse His love anyway.

The key question:
Will I continue to meditate on God’s love, even when my heart feels flat or distracted?

Starting here opens the door for God to work below the surface, and it connects you with countless others who only saw fruit as they persevered through ordinary, “unremarkable” moments.

How to Begin With Others (or On Your Own)

  1. Name what you’re actually experiencing.
    • “God, I feel nothing right now.”
    • “I’m distracted.”
    • “My mind is numb today.”
  2. Gently recall one truth about God’s love (use a verse or just repeat, “You love me as much as You love Jesus”).
  3. Ask the Core CHEW question:
    • “If I really believed that right now, how might I act or think differently—even if I feel nothing?”
  4. Do this with someone:
    • Invite a friend, small group, or family member to name where each of you is emotionally and try the Core CHEW together.

Tip: Set a timer for one minute. Just sit with the truth, even if it seems “dry.”

Pause and Notice

Take a few seconds before you finish:

  • Was there a small shift—a softened thought, a memory, or a breath of hope, even if slight?
  • Did you feel nothing at all? That’s normal. Simply showing up is a win.
  • Notice if you battle performance anxiety (“Shouldn’t I feel more by now?”) and remember: CHEWing is for real life, not for impressing God or others.

How This Practice Changes Things

  • Roots grow when no one is watching.
    Regularly returning to God’s love—even without visible fruit—establishes deep roots that later produce steady growth.
  • Real transformation is cumulative.
    Over days or weeks, small, faith-filled CHEWs quietly soften your heart and renew your mind.
  • You model honesty.
    Practicing this with others normalizes struggle and teaches community that faithfulness matters more than strong feelings.

Going Deeper: When You’re Ready for More

  • Keep a CHEW journal:
    Record what you did and how you felt (or didn’t feel). Review after a week and notice any patterns or slow shifts.
  • Explore different times:
    Try CHEWing first thing in the morning, at lunch, or before bed, and see if the time of day affects your focus.
  • Invite others to join:
    Share with your group or friend: “Let’s try CHEWing for a week, even if it feels dry, and compare notes.”

Bite-Sized Ways to Practice This Week

  • Set a daily phone reminder with the Core CHEW question.
  • Pair CHEW with something mundane (brushing teeth, commuting).
  • Whisper “God’s love is true even when I don’t feel it” as you go about your day.
  • Share one “dry” CHEW moment with a friend, asking if they relate.
  • Post a Core CHEW verse somewhere visible.

A Short Prayer for Today

Father, thank You that Your love for me does not change, no matter how I feel. Help me to trust Your love in seasons of dryness as much as in seasons of joy. Grow deep roots in me as I choose to return to You, again and again. Amen.

Your Story Matters

Have you ever CHEWed through a “dry” season? Did you discover something below the surface, or are you still waiting? Share your experience in the comments or send us a note—your story might encourage someone else to persevere.

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Transparency Note:
This series is crafted in collaboration with advanced AI tools and thoughtfully finalized by our team to ensure faithfulness and practical relevance for our readers. All stories are fictional and not a representation of any one individual.

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Ryan Bailey

Ryan C. Bailey helps Christian professionals live from the reality of God’s love in the middle of real leadership, work, and family pressures. For over 30 years, he has walked with leaders, families, and teams through key decisions and seasons of change, bringing together Gospel‑centered counseling, coaching, and consulting with practical tools like CHEW through Ryan C Bailey & Associates.