Marriage
The way your spouse is wired differently from you is not a problem to manage; it is a gift God placed on purpose. You may know the differences well, how your spouse decides, recovers from a hard day, or spends a free Saturday, and have settled into working around them. Have you ever considered that…
It’s easy to let the thing your spouse does every single day — the lunch packed, the call made, the lawn mowed — stopped registering as effort and allow it to become an everyday, unnoticed fact of life. C.H.E.W. with Me New here? What is CHEW? — a 30-second practice that grows into a day woven with…
Your spouse could probably draw a floor plan of your kitchen from memory. They may not be able to name a single person you sit across from in meetings all day. Most executives don’t mean to keep their work life with their spouse — but they’ve built a wall around it and never noticed.. C.H.E.W.…
You both stopped talking about it. That’s not the same thing as both of you agreeing it’s over. Somewhere on the calendar sits the unmarked anniversary of a conflict that ended in exhaustion rather than resolution — one of you went quiet first, the other followed, and life simply moved on around the unfinished business.…
Last night your spouse started a sentence about something hard, and you were already assembling a solution before they reached the period. It’s not that the fix you had in mind was wrong. It’s that nobody asked for it yet — and the reflex to supply it anyway is one you’ve spent years training at…
The Daily CHEWâ„¢Moving God’s Love From Head to Heart for Christian Professionals It is 8:14 on a Saturday morning. You walk into the kitchen. Before your nine-year-old says good morning, she scans your face for two seconds and asks the question she has learned to ask first: “Dad, are you working today?” You were not…
The Daily CHEWâ„¢Moving God’s Love from Head to Heart for Christian Professionals You are seated at the kitchen island Tuesday evening with your spouse, the dishes cleared, and the conversation you actually need to have is still not happening. One of you carries the numbers. One of you carries the worry. Neither of you has…
The Daily CHEWâ„¢Moving God’s Love from Head to Heart for Christian Professionals You are sitting at the kitchen island Tuesday morning, replaying a moment from a week ago when your spouse, your colleague, or your friend asked for your honest take — and you had one. You felt it the second they finished the sentence.…
The Daily CHEWâ„¢Moving God’s Love from Head to Heart for Christian Professionals You can build a successful firm and lose the marriage you built it for — and not realize how close you are until your wife casually mentions that getting a shower today was the biggest win on her list. A Christian wealth manager…