Spiritual Formation

Principles of the Gospel, Part 2

By Ryan Bailey / 2024-01-17 /

In yesterday’s post, we learned that the word Gospel means good news.  What about the Gospel of Jesus Christ that makes it good news? To answer that question, we need to go to the beginning. God is the Creator. As with any creator, He knows our purpose and how we are designed.  Out of all…

Shame and Identity, Part 10: How Do We Use Our Identity To Combat Despondency

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

As we saw yesterday, unhealthy drivenness can be a symptom of shame. Despondency can also be a symptom of shame. Instead of feeling the pressure to validate our worth through achievements, we can feel so defeated and hopeless about who we are that despondency becomes ingrained. Ironically, we can be unhealthily driven in one area…

Shame and Identity, Part 9: How Do We Use Our Identity To Combat Unhealthy Drivenness

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Shame often manifests itself through either unhealthy drivenness or despondency. Today, we’ll look at unhealthy drivenness, and tomorrow, we’ll look at despondency. In Scripture, we see that God Himself rested after He worked to create our world (Genesis 2:1-3). But as fallen humans, we can work obsessively without rest to fend off shame and prove…

Shame and Identity, Part 7: How Do We Come To Believe Our Identity From Our Hearts, Not Just Our Heads?

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

To go from shaming yourself to believing your true identity in Christ will be a process.  The power of our sinful nature was destroyed when we were united with Christ on the cross in salvation (Romans 7:1-6). Now we have received a regenerated heart that is the true us (Romans 7:22). However, even though our…

Shame and Identity, Part 6: What Is Shame?

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Now that we understand our identity (both the Macro and the Micro), its source (Christ, not our performance), and how our identity is based on God’s efforts, not ours, let’s look at shame. On Day One of this devotional, when Jack made identity statements like, “I suck,” “I’m hopeless,” and “I’m a failure,” he was…

Shame and Identity, Part 8: Chewing On Scripture To Fight Shame

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Today, we will look at the fifth step in our process of fighting shame and getting grounded in our identity in Christ. As we saw yesterday, the first four steps were: Now, let’s get into our fifth tool. This must be done repeatedly until the truth sinks into our hearts. For example, I might ask…

Shame and Identity, Part 4: The Micro Identity

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Yesterday, we talked about our Macro identity: who we are as Believers through the work of Christ. Today, we’ll discuss our Micro identity. Our Micro identity is the part of our identity that is unique to us, the way no human is the exact same as another human. Our Micro identities were determined for us…

Shame and Identity, Part 3: The Macro Identity

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

As we learned yesterday, God, our Creator and Master, has given us our identity. To make this truth more digestible, we can break our identity into two parts: our Macro and Micro identities. Today, we will discuss the Macro identity. Tomorrow, we will discuss the Micro identity. The Macro identity is the identity we share…

Shame and Identity, Part 2: Where Does Our True Identity Come From?

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Do we have the right to determine our own identity? Are we masters of our own fate and captains of our own souls? Genesis 1:27 tells us that God created us. As our creator, He knows how we are designed. He knows our essence. He even knows our worth. Genesis 1:26 says that of all…

Shame and Identity, Part 1: Meet Jack

By Ryan Bailey / 2023-12-18 /

Jack is the head of a ten-person law firm. He works with more clients than most attorneys do. He’s in a very stable and loving marriage. Jack has four children who respect and value him. He’s an elder at his church. Jack also struggles with his weight. He has no margin in his life and…