The Daily CHEW™
Moving God’s Love From Head to Heart for Christian Professionals
Your marriage does not need a resort. It needs three sentences.
The trip will not say them. Neither will the next weekend away.
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C – Clarity: What’s Really Going On Here
High-performing spouses default to logistics. You schedule. You book. You manage.
What your spouse waits for is short. Three sentences long.
I was wrong. I am sorry. Will you forgive me?
H – Hear: How God’s Love Reshapes This
Scripture knows the rhythm of repair. Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another (James 5:16). Healing follows confession, not the getaway.
When the Father absorbs your worst, the three sentences become possible. You stop protecting a self He has covered.
The resort is good. The repair is better. One depends on the other.
Three sentences. One marriage.
E – Exchange: Receive His Love Here
When the Father has absorbed your worst, the three sentences cost less. You can say them tonight, at the kitchen table.
When I really believed God’s love is the love that has already absorbed my worst in Christ, how would that change what I am feeling about saying the three sentences to my spouse, and what I am believing about God, myself, and what real repair would unlock at home?
W – Walk: One Way to Love Home Better This Week
Pick the one your spouse waits on. Say it tonight, eye to eye:
- I was wrong about ___.
- I am sorry for the harm.
- Will you forgive me?
Then sit with the silence. Do not fix it.
If this is the only thing I do from this CHEW today, it is enough.
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With you on the journey,
Ryan
Which of the three sentences is the one you have been avoiding saying to your spouse?
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